I applied for USA visas 13 years ago when I was on Indian passport and my visa application was rejected. I am now an Australian Citizen. Do I need to apply for Visa’s or am I eligible for Visa Waiver Program?

I am planning to move in August or September 2008 and will not have a Cancun address until that time. I plan to ship some boxes to Cancun and obtain an auto permit, so I need a FM3 Retirement Visa to do this. I intend to stay with a friend, for about two weeks, when I arrive in August or September. Should I use the friends address or my home address on the application?